A simple seeker was meditating on the concept
of resisting what seemed to be …
Why?
To protect myself from attachment
How?
By accepting that any pleasure or possession
is no more than a temporary experience.
Some might cling all the more, to enjoy
what they do while they can.
So, acceptance is not enough?
Enough what?
We need more than awareness?
To what?
To resolve the problem.
What problem?
The problem of how to let go.
Or what?
Of whatever seems to need to be let go of.
A two-way street?
Yes, and yet more.
Yes, a pressure gradient.
Please explain.
Whatever or whomever we cling to is also
clinging to us.
How?
Everything and everyone is energy, in relationship
with everything and everyone else.
So, it is the relationships and not the temporary
forms that need to be released from each other.
No.
Then, what?
Everything and everyone relates to everything
and everyone else.
Then, how to let go of a relationship?
We cannot.
What can we do?
We can, with practice, learn to accept
the existence of relationship and its power,
and its immunity to our will; individual or
collective.
To focus on the relationship and not the who
or what?
Yes.
And then what?
To meditate from as detached a mental perspective
as we can while remaining calm and non-judgmental
of ourselves or whatever relationship we seek
to understand.
Can we learn to understand the why and how of
relationships?
Yes.
And then they dissolve?
No.
What does happen as a result of our understanding?
Acceptance.
And then?
Tensions relax
Without detachment?
Detachment to what?
Whatever or whomever we were attached to.
We never were attached to anyone or anything.
Other than relationship itself?
Yes.
How are we attached to relationship?
We are relationship.
How?